Monday, January 24, 2011

Club Shirts!


Hello Fellow Readers!

I bring with me today news of something new and exciting for our club!

Alex has been hard at work creating new and fun shirts for us to wear!

The shirts are $7 a piece and come in your preference of size and will also have your name on the front! If you want a shirt please bring the cash to Alex at our next meeting with your size information and we'll get them ordered ASAP!

Hope this post finds you well and your reading of Safe Haven is coming along! Look for the post containing our discussion questions by the end of the week!

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Safe Haven

Hello again fellow readers!

I'm here to share some quick info with you on our book club selection for January: Safe Haven by Nicholas Sparks.

"When a mysterious young woman named Katie appears in the small North Carolina town of Southport, her sudden arrival raises questions about her past. Beautiful yet self-effacing, Katie seems determined to avoid forming personal ties until a series of events draws her into two reluctant relationships: one with Alex, a widowed store owner with a kind heart and two young children; and another with her plainspoken single neighbor, Jo. Despite her reservations, Katie slowly begins to let down her guard, putting down roots in the close-knit community and becoming increasingly attached to Alex and his family. But even as Katie begins to fall in love, she struggles with the dark secret that still haunts and terrifies her... a past that set her on a fearful, shattering journey across the country, to the sheltered oasis of Southport. With Jo's empathic and stubborn support,Katie eventually realizes that she must choose between a life of transient safety and one of riskier rewards... and that in the darkest hour, love is the only true safe haven."

Our next meeting will be Friday February 4th to discuss the newest Sparks novel, stay tuned for the list of questions we will discuss when we meet next month!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Call Me Mrs. Miracle Discussion


Hello All!

Last night we had our monthly meeting to discuss our December title-Call Me Mrs. Miracle!

A big thank you goes out to Joanna who took notes during the discussion!

Here are the questions we asked and some of the comments that were made along the way.

1. Do you sympathize with J.R’s unwillingness to leave the tragedy in his past behind, especially at Christmas? Should he have made more of an effort for his son’s sake?

Overall, we thought that J.R. should have moved on, for Jake's sake. His son needed to have something to believe in, have some magic at Christmas, and his father ignoring the holiday basically killed his hope. Mrs. Finley had bought Jake a train set for Christmas, something he desperately wanted, and for 21 years his father hid it in the closet. While we understand the pain and the grief, we thought that as a parent he needed to make more of an effort for his son and and that 21 years was too long to ignore the holiday.

2. Have you ever had the experience of trying to track down the Christmas season’s most popular toy, the gift of the moment? (Remember Cabbage Patch dolls and Tickle Me Elmo?) If so, share that experience and what the gift meant to the child who received it. Do you think Intellytron (if he was a real creation) would appeal to the kids in your life?

Those of us participating in the discussion do not have children, so we have been spared the holiday madness of shopping for that one great toy that every kid wants. (However, Nikki was all too proud to admit that she does have a Tickle Me Elmo...) And we can all agree that Intellytron, or Telly as he is affectionately known in his circle of friends, would be an overwhelming hit with the under 12 set in today's society. (Trust us, we're teachers.)

3. Mrs. Miracle has lots of clever, pithy sayings, which appear at the top of each chapter. Which was your favorite, and why?

Nikki's favorite quote came from chapter 15 "The best vitamin for a Christian is B1!"

4. What do you think of Lindy Lee as a boss? Have you ever had one like her, someone who’s constantly “delegating” and expecting her employees to implement all of her (or his!) ideas? Do you think she’s unreasonable—or ultimately fair?

We were not fans of Lindy Lee. We thought that she was unreasonable, and unfair. In the end she does change her mind and give Holly her bonus as well as turning out to be Gabe's future step-mother, but we thought that the character shift was contrived as well as a little unbelievable. Though, thankfully, none of us had stories to share about bosses such as her.

5. Looking after Gabe is Holly’s first real experience with a child. Does she do a good job? Does she make any mistakes? What advice would you give her?

We thought Holly did a good job raising Gabe, especially when you consider that it was her first real experience with a child. (Except for that one incident with her ex- Bill and his son. And no one was very fond of Bill.) We didn't find that she made any real mistakes, especially since parenting is all a series of trial and error and figuring it out as you go. Nikki was especially impressed by the "back-up plan" Holly created when she was at the store with Gabe, making sure he had a point to meet her at in case they were separated.

6. Holly’s parents are selfless in their volunteering. Have you or anyone you know done this kind of work? How would you describe the sacrifices—and the rewards?

We did not particularly agree with this statement. We think volunteering and helping those in need is a great thing for those more fortunate to do. However, their family was going through a difficult time and we thought they should have made an effort to be there for Gabe and for Holly as they went through this transition and hardship.

7. There are a lot of meals in this story! What’s the significance of preparing and serving food in Call Me Mrs. Miracle? Does your family have a special Christmas recipe?

I personally did not feel it was necessary to include the recipes while Nikki appreciated them :)

8. What was the most moving moment in this story for you? The funniest? The most romantic?

The overall consensus is that the most moving moment was when Gabe's father was standing at the door on Christmas morning. Nikki was especially thrilled to find that he was the one knocking on the door since she was expecting him to die! We were also so relieved to learn that Mrs. Miracle had given Gabe's robot to him, because we knew Mrs. Miracle would not have sabotaged Holly's Christmas surprise! Lindsey did not think the story was super funny because of how predictable it was. Nikki was especially moved that Holly's brother showed up in fatigues and the word "fatigues" was what ultimately made her cry. Alex was less concerned with the how moving the story was and was more concerned with why they named Mrs. Miracle "Emily" and wanted to know why her name wasn't Alex. (She was also a few more glasses of wine in at this point...)

And that's it for January's meeting! If you've read the book please feel free to comment and share your thoughts, we'd love to hear what you thought as well.



Monday, January 3, 2011

Call Me Mrs. Miracle (January Meeting)


December Book Selection: "Call Me Mrs. Miracle" by Debbie Macomber

Meeting Date: January 7, 2011 @ 7pm (please email me for meeting location-- 2readingbetweenthewines@gmail.com)

The following is the guide we will follow for the discussion at the meeting. I'll take notes and post some of the points that were made or discussed at the meeting. Please feel free to review the questions and post your thoughts on the questions if you will not be attending the meeting.

Discussion Points/Readers Guide Questions:

After a short conversation at our November meeting we decided that it might be a nice idea to choose a Christmas book for our December book to get us or keep us in the spirit of the holiday season.

What did you think of the book overall? Was it a good book? Would you recommend it to someone? Other thoughts or opinions on this title?


1. Do you sympathize with J.R’s unwillingness to leave the tragedy in his past behind, especially at Christmas? Should he have made more of an effort for his son’s sake? What do you think J.R. could have done to help his son view Christmas in a positive perspective?


2. Have you ever had the experience of trying to track down the Christmas season’s most popular toy, the gift of the moment? (Remember Cabbage Patch dolls and Tickle Me Elmo?) If so, share that experience and what the gift meant to the child who received it. Do you think Intellytron (if he was a real creation) would appeal to the kids in your life?

3. Mrs. Miracle has lots of clever, pithy sayings, which appear at the top of each chapter. Which was your favorite, and why?

4. What do you think of Lindy Lee as a boss? Have you ever had one like her, someone who’s constantly “delegating” and expecting her employees to implement all of her (or his!) ideas? Do you think she’s unreasonable—or ultimately fair?

5. Looking after Gabe is Holly’s first real experience with a child. Does she do a good job? Does she make any mistakes? What advice would you give her?

6. Holly’s parents are selfless in their volunteering. Have you or anyone you know done this kind of work? How would you describe the sacrifices—and the rewards?

7. Holly helps her brother while he’s deployed in Afghanistan by taking care of his son. What can we do to support the troops, the individual men and women serving overseas?

8. There are a lot of meals in this story! What’s the significance of preparing and serving food in Call Me Mrs. Miracle? Does your family have a special Christmas recipe?

9. What was the most moving moment in this story for you? The funniest? The most romantic?

10. Debbie attributes the origin of the Mrs. Miracle character to the Biblical quote “Do not forget to entertain strangers . . . for some have entertained angels unaware.” (Hebrews, 13). Do any of the characters in this story suspect there’s something unusual about Mrs. Miracle? Do they realize that she’s played a role in their lives? If you have ever had a brief encounter with someone who had a positive or even life-changing effect on you, share that experience.


Pertinent Links:

http://charlotteswebofbooks.blogspot.com/2010/11/156-call-me-mrs-miracle-by-debbie.html

http://www.talesofwhimsy.com/2010/12/call-me-mrs-miracle-petite-book-review.html

http://chicklitplus.com/call-me-mrs-miracle-by-debbie-macomber/

http://bookfanmary.wordpress.com/2010/09/27/2390/


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